DON'T TOUCH HER THERE !

“Bullshit everywhere, same shit all the time and so it's a widespread syndromes of all time”..

"It is not until someone drag you into hell that you know the world isn't a fair place for all of us" Says Afoke a 27 year old entrepreneur who was one among the other female who shared their own version of Abuse experiences.
"I lived in my world where my destiny had it all decided for me by my parents. I was sent to a distant relation's house to help with house chores and baby sitting, housemaid job we call it in my culture and you dare not object to as it a means of surviving in a poor family. I ain't the poor thing, my parents were. They don't have enough money to cater for all 8 children with their own mouth to feed making us a total no of 10 in an old fashioned house my grandpa left my father with. Peasant farmers owns life happiness because they can make their own food but it wasn't an easy thing to always wait till harvest time before we could reap our little farm produce meant for our stomach only".

"Life may seems not so easy" She continued, "but to village children life is all time merrily merry. I took to the city to live with the relation my father sent me to and the woman of the house showed me hell of a kind regardless of my teenage age. I was just a teen prone to make mistakes and of course correction should be my cure but it turn out to be a harsh kinda like correction with being beaten up with a stone leather belt which would walk its way around my body leaving me with bruise and scars"

"I never went to school" She says, "but I was provided a formal education to learn hair making skill with a motive of her using me for business, today I run a Saloon business ".

23 year old Esther an undergraduate had a campaign against female victimization. "I'd still thought that everything about that night-the shame, fear- would fade in time, but, that hadn't happened, instead the things that I remembered, those little details of how someone I trusted so much, whom my mother entrusted to teach me in God's way violated my innocence, stripped me off my self worth, dipped into my organ with force for his own pleasure, seems to grow stronger to the point where I could feel their weight in my chest. Nothing however stuck with me more than the memory of stepping into that room to help on the instructions of my mother to go give him food on his being indisposed, what I found there, how the light took off with threatening and inhumanity, that nightmare I survived so hard with, 10 years ago". She said.

Anything abuse is called abuse. I didn't know that early enough maybe because I was stuck with people who never believed in positivity and I began living like them. They are so pessimistic that I often don't believe in myself. I couldn't do that which I desire for the fear of being castigated and made mockery of. I had love to be a fashion designer but then I was told I did not have what it takes to be one. I was reminded I can't make it big because there are tons of fashion designers out there that haven't even gain ground. Should I live for everybody or myself? I often ask but dealing with people around my existence who never believed in aspirations, dream or goals were such a mess I lived with - damn it! That's such a life worth abuse". A 25 year old Amina bitterly expressed.

Abuse is one hellish thing from the  pit of hell. It may be physical, sexual or child abuse, amongst its kind. No body has the right to infringe pain on another person but it is a widespread mess we lived with everyday. It centers around everybody whether male or female. It always affects the women and children as they were a vulnerable target for molestation,
ill-treatment, abuse, rape, slavery and victimizations gotten from men or their fellow women.
The vast rate of girls trafficking for prostitution contributes majorly by women and rape were such an assault with men.

Human inflicting human we can say but when anybody manipulates, infringes, controls, forces an action against our wills then we decry it loud and loud. Don't touch her there!
Rape is one of the most terrible crime on earth and it happens every few minutes. The problem with groups who deal with rape is that they try to educate women about how to defend themselves, what really need to be done is teaching men not to rape. Go to the source and start there.  Women don't get raped because they were flirtatious or sexy nor drinking neither dressing immoral or they weren't careful enough, they get raped because someone raped them.

Physical abuse to a child isn't because a child plays tantrums - it's part of who they are. They are physically abused because their abusers is a bastardized bastard

It were as a result of failure in life that makes some persons never believed in positivity but expressing a negation to another persons positive attitude is an harm done ever and it shatter dreams.

For every victim out there who had suffered in any form of abuse, it such a little pity that it leaves an engraving scar but you didn't brought it to yourself, someone did. The perpetrator is the son of a gun who is to blame not you. You aren't a damaged goods or a dirty linen because you are raped, the real you is such an invaluable treasure for you are not a victim but a survivor.

Your self worth isn't tarnished it is the aggressor that has none. Child molesters should be used for scientific research instead of animals and that is the way it ought to be. The aftermath leaves one feeling scared, ashamed, alone, self blame, trust issues, relationship disorder, plagued by nightmares flashback and other unpleasant memories but they were all symptoms not reality. There is every need to accept the truth but you weren't to blame at all as there's no surefire way to identify a rapist or a molester, many appear completely normal, friendly, charming and non threatening. Just because you've previously consented to sex with someone doesn't give them perpetual rights to your body. When Sex is forced against one's will, we called it Rape.

★Speak it out
★Say it out
★Seek for help
★Go for counselling
★Get a therapist
★Trust In God
★Eat well
★Do exercise
★Get enough sleep
★Inspire others
★Do what you love
It is your life, live your own, the one you want and desire not what they define. In any situation, you are the best bet decision maker, so decide to make your life worth better because it means a lot to you and to other victims your experience can heal and help. Just when you think your life has come to a full stop, remember someone need to begin his or hers from yours.

“One good fighting techniques against abuse is the determination to be a survivor by slamming bullshit in the face, spank the dogma, slay societal judgments, shut down myopic and kick mess into hole.
And who says it will that be easy but if it were easy for a perpetrator to victimized a victim then it is easy for the victim to survive against all odds too”

“May the soul of everyone that has lost this battle make every perpetrator suffer from bone to marrow. Amen!” Exclaim All of them in Unison.