I mailed this anonymously to Realitybiteswithkendamsel with the motives of sharing some provoking thoughts I believed bothers not only me. If anyone had told me that a time in a woman's life would come when she would be the one looking for her man. I would had at least considered it true even if I wouldn't agreed to such statement. Be yourself and the right man will find you so they say,but,I didn't expect at 27 am still finding the right man. Be the Woman you want your Man to be,so have heard and read. That to a very large extent is reasonable. Our modern world or better still the actualization of our true meaning has gone beyond seeing ourselves as just a housewife. We were told to be independent,self opinionated,career driven,smart and strong as if we are inherently weak. Feminism or whatever its called is not my problem right now. Most times I primp in the mirror,looking inwardly at my reflection,I would just smile,more of what seems like a smirk."How can yo...