Virginity does not break or make us. They say it is the greatest gift we ever could present to our man, no it isn't! Every part of a woman is a gift to her husband. To be a good girl does not lies in being a virgin. Teach the young girl to love herself, cherish her body and be aware that she's a complete human, special and beautiful. Her virginity is a state of her sexual innocence which shed her away from external circumstances. She's not naïve or a holier-than-thou. She can be smart, intelligent and curious. Good upbringing is never telling her to remain a virgin till she gets married or that her husband will cherish her has no say in this. Let her know virginity is not a guarantee to a good marriage nor to finding a good man. What attracts a good man is her invaluable quality which reflects in and out of her with no perfection, reminding her she is not impeccable and it's fine. It's a choice made not because of moral persuasion or religious obligation and whet...