Only You Can Get Through

Each time I think its over,am out of a mess, life kicks me down double times again.
Does it mean I pray less?
Does it mean am not smart enough? Does it mean am not even intelligent at all?
Or how can God be so quiet in times of depression?
Did he even exist at all?

Well, when some situations open face you would want to give God an invitation,sit him down and begin to ask questions you needed urgent answers to.
But then, life never issued anyone a free trials entry pass.
Never have I seen any man who had it all sweet without sour.
If God had showed us the hell we gonna pass through to make it through, we could had told him to make the journey hell free. But He Never did showed us.
All prayers then lead to dear Lord never let any struggles to strangles.

WHAT ARE YOUR LIFE STRESSOR(s)?
Parent loss.
Relationship loss.
Job loss.
Grief.
Failure.
Loneliness.
Heart break.
Unemployment.
Unwanted pregnancy
Or may be there's a completely different kind of stressor in your life.
Whatever you are struggling with,there are hidden blessings that comes with virtually every struggles.
Hardship are opportunities for growth and learning. They deepens our understanding of ourselves,others and the world around

Only you can get through is not a mythological concept,its a real fact in its true self.

Feel your pain; I don't belong to the school of thought of Stoicism. Hence I can't be impassive.
I understands we feel differently and heal differently. But, if there's a way to get through is to allow yourself feel what you are passing through. Whatever the stressor is.
Having lost a mother, I know how pathetic it feels to be motherless.
It appears my whole world is filled with darkness and I couldn't see through. Well that was how I felt.
Open your pain. Feel it. Cry it if it will make you feel better. Perhaps you don't even know what to do, just do something.
You are better of, when you let your pain to pass through you and you through it.

Talk it; How does it feels when you can keep your thoughts to yourself, I mean when you can be very reticent. But, there are when you should and shouldn't.
My grief moments left me with no choice but to ask God a big WHY? If he is omnipresent then I believed he is everywhere.
So, I yelled it out to Him, even though it appears I can't see Him, I felt he heard my million dollar questions and the tranquility that came afterward overwhelmed my pain.
God is never a high tower spirit you look into the sky finding. He is as near as near it self.
Find someone you can talk to and with. Someone will be willing to give you a listening ears, sympathize and empathize with you.
That will lighten the burdens in your heart.
Why die in silence when you can be saved by speaking.
Whoever is the mother of keeping silence in difficult situations, suicidal ideation is the father.

Ask for help; You might assume that you can and should handle this difficult time on your own. Sure, many people do. But, it is okay to ask for help. Sometimes, we need to relinquish control, ask for help and receive it with grace.
It feels better when you can seek for and receive support from your loved ones.
It may come in forms of money, compassion, or encouragement.
I say it is also okay if the people you put high expectations on fails, for Life will also make the less expected ones to rise for you. That is the beautiful way of life saying "I am unpredictable and amazing". Remember, everybody's got their own damn problems, so, don't be so caught up in disappointment.
Ask God for help, you will receive.

Let Go; Its fine to feel pathetic, self pity is not a crime when you are not letting it get over you.
There are just some things in life you don't have control over.
Let go of them and focus on the things you can control.
A psychologist says 'The only thing you can control in your state of adversity is You'.
Focus on how you can get through your hard times.
Don't be hard on yourself.
Allow yourself heal with time.
See to how you can be happy again or how things will become better.
Just let go of your predicament and let yourself see the light where darkness filled.

Stay Positive; My grandmother gave me a very important key to coping with difficult situations in life. She suggested that if any situation is not capable of removing the scalp of your head then it means such things can't kill you.
That is really true and helpful. So, I laid my worries on the cross, told myself the end doesn't even an end. Not yet.
So, you lost a job, ofcourse, you will find another better one.
That you lose a parent or both untimely is never the end to your life neither is it an excuse you can give for not achieving.
You end your relationship, fine, you will always find yourself in another one
You got heartbroken, good, your heart will heal when love comes again.
You are frustrated because you are unemployed, remember you will feel more frustrated when you get employed. Or how about seeing to how you can create one.

Grief and pain are temporary,they don't last forever.
Loneliness is not human but feelings. Hence, you are in control of how you feel that you can get through loneliness.
That you are impregnated is not a stigma. It doesn't in any way affect your life neither does it says you are finished.
Failure prepares you for success. So, it's a total waste of existence to fall to never rise.

Hello??? Your situation is not you. You are not your difficult time.
You are never your problems.
Your true self is that deeper entity  within that is perfectly whole and well no matter what you are experiencing.
Never let anything stops you not even yourself.
Don't allow anyone talk you out or criticize you.
For you are braver than you believe
Stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through or work around it. Says
"Michael Jordan".

Every successful people have their days of unsuccessful. Life never goes handy without its puzzle. All you need is to try, guess, try again until you get through.
Remember, if honey has their bees
Rose their thorns
If stars can't shine through without darkness
If you still have a life full of breath, then not only you will get through life but you will also come out bright.

Because only you can get through provided with the zeal to get through.
It can be that true and real

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